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		<title>By: deborahgirouard.com &#187; Blog Archive &#187; &#8220;Unexpectedly, your success became a liability&#8221;</title>
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		<dc:creator>deborahgirouard.com &#187; Blog Archive &#187; &#8220;Unexpectedly, your success became a liability&#8221;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 15:03:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Why Failure Costs Nothing And Success Can Steal Everything [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Dan Reinhold</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan Reinhold</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 12:19:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep.

Stumble forward.

Say Dave, do you still ride that little pink bike with the basket??


Dan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep.</p>
<p>Stumble forward.</p>
<p>Say Dave, do you still ride that little pink bike with the basket??</p>
<p>Dan</p>
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		<title>By: Kirsten &#124; Circe's Kitchen</title>
		<link>http://www.rockyourday.com/why-failure-costs-nothing-and-success-can-steal-everything/comment-page-1/#comment-2211</link>
		<dc:creator>Kirsten &#124; Circe's Kitchen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 19:05:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just surfed over here via Yes to Me and chiming in to say this is a great article. Love your perspective. Successful failure is like &quot;beginner&#039;s mind&quot; in Zen. If you keep that open, ready mind, it&#039;s easier to pick yourself up and go for your dream again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just surfed over here via Yes to Me and chiming in to say this is a great article. Love your perspective. Successful failure is like &#8220;beginner&#8217;s mind&#8221; in Zen. If you keep that open, ready mind, it&#8217;s easier to pick yourself up and go for your dream again.</p>
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		<title>By: Yes to Me Month Three &#38; Four Review &#124; Yes to Me</title>
		<link>http://www.rockyourday.com/why-failure-costs-nothing-and-success-can-steal-everything/comment-page-1/#comment-2182</link>
		<dc:creator>Yes to Me Month Three &#38; Four Review &#124; Yes to Me</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 18:06:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] You to Do What is your personal definition of success? Read two inspiring stories in this post.  How Failure Costs Nothing And Success Can Steal Everything Now get a perspective on what “failure” really is.  The Cycles In Life: How To Re-Emerge From [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Dorian aka coffeeister &#124;_&#124;)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dorian aka coffeeister &#124;_&#124;)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 04:47:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Failure denotes a willingness to try new things &amp; is a matter of perspective. A long-time friend helped my husband &amp; I out during our recent homelessness by letting us stay in a house that he couldn&#039;t sell. When he made it clear he was wary of us taking advantage of his kindness after very little time had passed, I pointed out that we were already rebuilding &amp; the home had been offered not sought. He belittled the progress we were making, citing the fact we had failed too often for him to be reassured. I explained that his POV was incredibly limited as, every time we&#039;d failed, we&#039;d been given the chance to start again &amp; HAD!

Whereas all he could see was endings, we&#039;d been methodically creating beginnings &amp; would ultimately have a far more fulfilling life as a result. We could have played it safe all these years but we&#039;ve experienced more, learned more in the process &amp; discovered more of what we want along the way. The regrets are few &amp; far between because the choices are always ours. We&#039;ve traded certain kinds of success for another, more lasting kind &amp; - w/all these so-called failures behind us - we&#039;re set up for one hell of a win. Given the context you provided for failure, no wonder we get accused of having not grown up but YAY US..

(&#124;_&#124;*cheers*&#124;_&#124;)
“Good people are good because they&#039;ve come to wisdom through failure. We get very little wisdom from success, you know.” ~ William Saroyan

&lt;em&gt;Dorian aka coffeeister &#124;_&#124;)&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://coffeesister.net/2008/05/11/mum.aspx&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Mum&#039;s NOT the word when it comes to mine &lt;3&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Failure denotes a willingness to try new things &amp; is a matter of perspective. A long-time friend helped my husband &amp; I out during our recent homelessness by letting us stay in a house that he couldn&#8217;t sell. When he made it clear he was wary of us taking advantage of his kindness after very little time had passed, I pointed out that we were already rebuilding &amp; the home had been offered not sought. He belittled the progress we were making, citing the fact we had failed too often for him to be reassured. I explained that his POV was incredibly limited as, every time we&#8217;d failed, we&#8217;d been given the chance to start again &amp; HAD!</p>
<p>Whereas all he could see was endings, we&#8217;d been methodically creating beginnings &amp; would ultimately have a far more fulfilling life as a result. We could have played it safe all these years but we&#8217;ve experienced more, learned more in the process &amp; discovered more of what we want along the way. The regrets are few &amp; far between because the choices are always ours. We&#8217;ve traded certain kinds of success for another, more lasting kind &amp; &#8211; w/all these so-called failures behind us &#8211; we&#8217;re set up for one hell of a win. Given the context you provided for failure, no wonder we get accused of having not grown up but YAY US..</p>
<p>(|_|*cheers*|_|)<br />
“Good people are good because they&#8217;ve come to wisdom through failure. We get very little wisdom from success, you know.” ~ William Saroyan</p>
<p><em>Dorian aka coffeeister |_|)&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://coffeesister.net/2008/05/11/mum.aspx' rel="nofollow">Mum&#8217;s NOT the word when it comes to mine &lt;3</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: 6 Weeks</title>
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		<dc:creator>6 Weeks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 11:33:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] we can&#8217;t all have Dave Navarro personally kick us in the ass every day (hey, he&#8217;s awesome, but he&#8217;s got a family too), I&#8217;ll start off by [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Shawn Norris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shawn Norris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 10:36:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you may be my old linguistics teacher, Dave.  I remember spending an entire class period on the word &quot;fail&quot; and ending with all of us looking at it as a positive word.  

He was also my ass kicker when I first started this freelance writing zaniness.

Anyway, great post.  You&#039;ve made a subscriber out of me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you may be my old linguistics teacher, Dave.  I remember spending an entire class period on the word &#8220;fail&#8221; and ending with all of us looking at it as a positive word.  </p>
<p>He was also my ass kicker when I first started this freelance writing zaniness.</p>
<p>Anyway, great post.  You&#8217;ve made a subscriber out of me.</p>
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		<title>By: Brett Legree</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brett Legree</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 03:12:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Dave,

I really do believe that.  I&#039;ve written on my blog about a deep personal loss (a child) - a job, a house, eh - that&#039;s nothing.  I had a conversation with a co-worker one day, she was concerned about her job if such &amp; such happened with my company.  I just started laughing, because as long as I&#039;m alive, I can and will get to where I want to be, somehow.

&lt;em&gt;Brett Legree&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/6weeksca/~3/287380837/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;canada 2, greece 0. a story about running.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Dave,</p>
<p>I really do believe that.  I&#8217;ve written on my blog about a deep personal loss (a child) &#8211; a job, a house, eh &#8211; that&#8217;s nothing.  I had a conversation with a co-worker one day, she was concerned about her job if such &amp; such happened with my company.  I just started laughing, because as long as I&#8217;m alive, I can and will get to where I want to be, somehow.</p>
<p><em>Brett Legree&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/6weeksca/~3/287380837/' rel="nofollow">canada 2, greece 0. a story about running.</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Dave Navarro</title>
		<link>http://www.rockyourday.com/why-failure-costs-nothing-and-success-can-steal-everything/comment-page-1/#comment-1913</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave Navarro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 03:02:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Brett - 

That&#039;s the key - to internalize the fact that LIFE GOES ON.  If you lose your job, you can survive.  Lose your house?  You can survive.  It may suck, but you can survive, and it&#039;s not the end of the world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Brett &#8211; </p>
<p>That&#8217;s the key &#8211; to internalize the fact that LIFE GOES ON.  If you lose your job, you can survive.  Lose your house?  You can survive.  It may suck, but you can survive, and it&#8217;s not the end of the world.</p>
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		<title>By: Loraleigh Vance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Loraleigh Vance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 03:02:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I remind myself each day to work like nobody&#039;s looking (just in case I fall flat). And I keep a success file for that same purpose

And now you are reminding me too. 

Thanks!

&lt;em&gt;Loraleigh Vance&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LoraleighVance/~3/290478474/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Spiritual Healing of the Store-bought Variety&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remind myself each day to work like nobody&#8217;s looking (just in case I fall flat). And I keep a success file for that same purpose</p>
<p>And now you are reminding me too. </p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
<p><em>Loraleigh Vance&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LoraleighVance/~3/290478474/' rel="nofollow">Spiritual Healing of the Store-bought Variety</a></em></p>
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